Managing relationships with friends

This article discusses friendship i.e. a special type of relationship existing either within same sex or opposite sex groups. People need to exercise restrain while making friendship and weigh the pros and cons of making friendship with people belonging either to same caste, religion or state or different region/religion.If relationship is based on non-materialistic parameters, chances exist that this relationship will stay for a long period. On he other hand, if relationship is formed on the basis of vested interests all the possibilities exist to break this relationship at the earliest.

Making relationship:

Making relationship is neither so easy nor too difficult. However, maintaining the same redolence in the relationship for a prolonged period is a daunting task. Making new friends or relationship of similar nature is a habit and art that differs from individual to individual. Have you ever thought why some people have more friends and others only few? This depends on the personality of an individual, balance in speech and behavior. If you have control over your tongue and speak after weighing all the pros and cons, you can succeed in maintaining all your friendships and relationships for years. One need to know clearly the purpose of making relationship to maintain for a long period.

Why people DO make relationship?

Concerned person should know it in very clear terms that why other party or individual is interested in making friendship or any sort of relationship. The reasons or purposes are likely to one among listed below.

1. To accomplish a specific task

2. To borrow cash or any other items of interest

3. To achieve a specific goal taking advantage of your influence

4. To get popularity by being in your association if you are very influential person

5. Any other interest that can be served in your association

6. Intersets, views and opinions of both parties are same

Some people are cunning enough and make friendship or relationships to get some work done through you or through your relatives, friends etc. Hence, try to judge a person before getting too close to anyone who is trying to get befriend with you.

Managing relationship when dealing wih opposite sex:

Whether its friend circle, family life or love life, most important question is who should have bulk of control? You, or your friend, you/your girl/boy friend, you / your wife, you/ colleagues. In different situations nature of relationship may vary but question of control remain there. Should gender biases be there to decide the question of control or any other criteria ?

Gender biases should never come in between whenever relationship has to be maintained. Most of the relationships are broken due to egoistic approach. A relationship can not prolong if question of authority comes in between. Best answer for bulk of control may be equal control of both parties or if not possible it may be worked out by consensus. Whenever there is a relationship of any nature, one among two persons has to compromise on some issues and in several situations other party has to compromise. The question of control can only be negotiated by compromise. Overall control by one person can be exercised only in official matters. However, successful administrator never tries to dominate over their staff, they always try to take cooperation from their subordinates.

In family matters, if you are male and husband and by virtue of being this you take bulk of control, your relationship with your family is not going to continue for a longtime. Likewise, if you are having relationship with opposite sex, never try to impose your ideas on other person. Everyone has his or her ego so take care don't hurt any one's ego if you wish to continue your relationship with one and all for a longer period.

Never let your passions die:

You have to keep trying to keep the passion strong in your relationship. We will focus here relationship between opposite sex. Thrill present in relationship always demand something new and unexplored.One

can never forget the thrill of first glance, ripples of excitement through whole body with a slight touch of fingers,

sitting together for hours and wishing that no hinderance should come in between. So when relationship gets older,

you have to search means and look for ways to do something new to keep the passions alive. Here are few tips to make relationship stronger and never ending:

1. Romance must be always there

2. Anyone of you have to create the moods

3. You have to learn to be a good listner

4. Never impose your wishes on others

5. Respect the feelings of your partner

6. Never adopt an attitude of indifference to sex

How to create moods?

• Hold each other's hand
• Have a dance
• Go for a outing
• Watch romantic movie